dcnvl:

A man must never complain or whine about life. Period.

It is better to say I've done it than I'm going to do it. First do, then talk about it. When I hear someone say I'm going to do this and I'm going to do that, I know they're likely losers. If they were serious they would be doing it already. Be the doer, not the talker.

Life is nothing if not struggle. Do not run from struggle, embrace it. Sex drive is perhaps the biggest source of struggle and also the biggest strength. If you lose struggle, you might lose the very thing happiness and meaning sprout from. Be careful what you wish for.