04/24/2016
If a woman becomes the center of your existence, you will cease to exist for her before long.
04/16/2016
Litmus test of woman's love: Have sex with her with your body smell on. If she's repelled, she doesn't love. She should like your smell.
04/16/2016
Litmus test of woman's love: Have sex with her with your body smell on. If she's repelled, she doesn't love. She should like your smell.
03/27/2016
Frequently changing display pics is a sign of the person's emptiness, insecurity and narcissism.
03/25/2016
People who ask you to lend them money as a favor for a second time will ask the favor over and over again.
Don’t lend money to an acquaintance as a favor twice. If they ask again, they are a burden on the society, and probably deserve to go down.
03/01/2016
Wallowing in love is not a privilege men have got.
03/01/2016
Wallowing in love is not a privilege men have got.
02/15/2016
Purpose of one's existence = the thing that brings one the most fulfillment in life
The purpose of a man's existence is to serve the mankind. The purpose of a woman's existence is to serve an alpha man.
02/14/2016
If women want gender equality they should not demand marriage; because men don't need marriage as much as women do
Marriage is costly to men. A woman must compensate the man for marrying her, by serving him. It is fairness, not oppression
02/04/2016
A woman will be what a man she loves wants her to be. Without the man, she won't be anything but a media-fueled zombie.
02/01/2016
Who needs sex more? Men. So women call the shots. Who needs relationship more? Women. So men should call the shots
A woman can tell you how you should be so she gives you sex. But telling you how you should behave in a relationship so she stays? No. If the woman sets the terms...
01/27/2016
Don't be rude to your woman all the time. Love her, but like you would love your dog. She wants that and will be the happiest.
01/27/2016
A woman needs some beating from her man, just like children need some beating from their parents. Sadly, both are forbidden today.
01/27/2016
The way to a man's heart is through his stomach. The way to a woman's heart is through below that.
01/23/2016
Before idolizing someone one must ask what is their contribution towards nourishment of the society, or if there is any at all.
01/17/2016
A wife's role is to serve her husband at home and allow him to act out his manliness by staying under his care and protection.
01/12/2016
A woman will remember and may go back to the man who breaks up with her, but will never remember or go back to the man she breaks up with.
When a woman breaks up with you act like you're not affected at all. Find another woman, keep rocking, and she might come back. Reject.
Beggi...
01/11/2016
Anyone saying he doesn't fancy leveraging his accomplishments towards impressing/attracting more women is being dishonest at some level.
01/05/2016
In the modern sexual market it is only a matter of time until your woman finds a higher SMV man and branch-swings. Especially when you are with a woman with SMV (sexual market value) equal to or greater than yours.
Learn to view her as sex object and don't be carried aw...
01/01/2016
Woman: Will you miss me when I'm gone?
Man: (smirking cockily and pointing to his penis) Give me something to miss you for.
12/30/2015
In a couple of days a woman can go from "I can't live without you" to "..." (you don't exist) if you act beta enough (show too much love).
If you act beta she will be confused (because she can't rationalize her repulsion) Spare her the agony and maintain the I-don't-care alpha fr...
12/25/2015
Sometimes telling people you understand their pain makes them wallow in misery longer. Being cold instead cuts their cord with pain sooner.
12/25/2015
“A real man cannot be stolen.” A real woman does not feel a need to say that.
12/24/2015
If you're a low value beta and be violent to her, she'll send you to jail. But if you're a violent alpha, she'll waste no time in taking you to bed.
12/23/2015
Be confident and flirtatious. Confidence is for men what beauty is for women. Flirtatiousness is for men what makeup is for women.
12/23/2015
Your devotion to one woman will make you unattractive to all women, including the one you're devoted to. Don't show devotion, command it.
12/20/2015
Grow and give out. Food, knowledge, values, ideas, wealth, anything. Yourself. The only meaningful goal. Grow and give out.
12/15/2015
Any man who's ever had sex with a normal woman (who's not a slut or a nympho) knows that, more often than not, no does not mean no.
A woman resists to have plausible deniability lest she's seen as cheap, or regrets the sex afterwards. No means no only until it means yes.
12/13/2015
It's better to be offensive than defensive with women when you wish to trigger or maintain her attraction.
12/13/2015
Non-availability of good women is not the only challenge to marriage and raising family. The whole establishment is anti-marriage.
Even if one finds a marriageable woman today, there are more disincentives than incentives to getting married and creating family.
12/11/2015
Happy in love is being emotionally high. Sooner than later one would hit the ground. That's where one must find happiness that is normal.
12/10/2015
Command importance by not talking to people until they initiate the talk. It's better to be termed arrogant than to be taken for granted.
12/04/2015
Modern women are taught to view men only as rapists and oppressors, and not as makers of society and protectors.
Feminist propaganda-fed women who can't recognise men's role and sacrifices as makers of society and protectors don't deserve a man in their life.
12/04/2015
Women are naturally dependent species. That's why they can blame men for all the shit in their life.
When you blame others for the shit in your life, that means your wellbeing is dependent on those you are blaming. You're not independent.
Independent woman, therefore, is an oxymo...
12/04/2015
The incompatibility of women and logic is eternal.
12/02/2015
All women are pseudo-logicians.
11/30/2015
In absence of restrictions women can't wait to drop clothes. There's the justification for Islam's so-called body bags for women.
11/30/2015
In unrestricted environment which sex behaves in sexually tempting manner? The answer would explain whose sexual expression should be restricted.
11/15/2015
Women's tears melt men. Men's tears harden women. Courtesy biology and evolution.
11/08/2015
Women earn value by exercising restraint and withholding sex. Men do by extracting sex with minimum price. By encouraging women to have sex as freely as men, feminism rips women of their value.
11/08/2015
Gender Pay Gap should not be shocking. What should be shocking is that it is a myth, and women are paid almost the same as men. For any sane man who has been in relationship with a woman knows that women are dumb, grown up children. We live in such a dumbed down world!
10/22/2015
People say they don't want pity. But they want selfless love. But selfless love is pity.
10/03/2015
Smoking is masculine only insofar as you smoke the cigarette and not the cigarette smoking you.
09/16/2015
Shaming is important as a soft punishment for noncriminal but immoral acts.
09/14/2015
Left to her own devices a woman would find the last man in the world she should be with, be pumped and dumped by him, then cry that there are no good men left in the world.
09/13/2015
Philosophers are like soldiers in that they have the drive to protect the world/society and make people's lives better, but they end up living alone and often shitty life themselves.
09/09/2015
Feeling good about oneself is never an end in and of itself. It is a side effect of achieving a desired external end.
09/02/2015
Women against patriarchy have no value for anyone. Without patriarchy there is no society. Without men's hard work and sacrifices there is no civilization.
09/02/2015
If women don't want to stay at home, cook, clean, serve the family and raise children while men work outside building the society (no, women don't build the society, they do only safe jobs in institutions built by men) they are not bringing anything to the table apart from their ...
08/31/2015
Men are builders and fixers, women are caretakers.
08/29/2015
Barring exception that is rape, a man never decides to have sex with a woman. It is always a woman's decision to have sex with a man.
08/23/2015
Only woman who is obediently dependent on a virtuous man is worthy of respect. An independent woman is no good for society or for herself.
08/18/2015
Corporations don't care about your intelligence unless you can be a tool for their growth. In that case your intelligence doesn't matter.
08/18/2015
One's intellectual development reaches full circle when not only can one understand complex matters but also articulate them.
08/16/2015
Rape Culture is not where men trivialize rape, but where women trivialize rape by calling everything rape.
08/09/2015
A man wishing to be understood by the woman he loves is carrying a death wish.
07/29/2015
Only the intelligent men with thirst for wisdom can benefit from the wisdom of other men.
07/25/2015
A true man doesn't need, he is needed.
07/25/2015
He who doesn't need it always has an upper hand.
07/21/2015
In a corporation, people are tools.
07/21/2015
He who seldom suffers is worse off for he doesn't know how to cope.
07/20/2015
That men have to fight for their right is itself a potent sign that the civilization is in decline.
Men make the car. Women learn to drive the car, and consider themselves equal to men, even superior, and snatch the driver's seat. Then they want to kick the men out of the car. Ho...
07/20/2015
If you want stupid to listen to you, talk with strength. If you want intelligent to listen to you, talk with sense.
05/13/2015
When women thought they were being oppressed, men were building the society. Today's woman thinks she is powerful because she can drive a car, but never stops to think who made the car.
04/22/2015
"Commencement speakers are always telling young people to follow their passions. Be true to yourself. This is a vision of life that begins with self and ends with self. But people on the road to inner light do not find their vocations by asking, what do I want from life? They ask...
04/10/2015
Irrationality and bad temper is a vicious combination. It is very difficult to live with a person possessing it.
04/05/2015
Rape news should not incite more furor than the news of men getting robbed. Another woman got raped. Meh.
This is why -
http://darshanchande.blogspot.in/2015/03/rape-through-lenses-of-sexual-economics.html
03/14/2015
Mockery is the way of the shallow and the fake. If one has objection to someone or something, one should be able to present it in a rational and structured way like one really understands it.
03/13/2015
If a man can be out of home at midnight then why can't a woman? Because a woman is equivalent to man with wads of dollar bills dangling out of his pockets. Both have resources of value to others, some of whom would do anything to get them. It is a fact of society. And it is not s...
02/20/2015
A modern woman can not be happy because she wants to be happy like a man. Media and feminist propaganda have brainwashed her to think that dependency and subservience towards man is oppression, hence she is not happy in marriage. She wants to rather be "strong and independent" an...
02/20/2015
A strong and independent woman has no business apart from sex in a man's life. If a woman does not need a man for survival and security then marriage is not for her. A marriage in which the woman is not dependent and subservient is of no value to the man. Defy this critique all y...
02/18/2015
There is no excuse for not understanding the world you live in. It is called stupidity.
01/20/2015
Morality is nothing if not instrumental to wellbeing and growth of humanity.
01/19/2015
Men who subscribe to feminist ideals are either being dishonest (for political correctness and various social benefits thereof) or are alien to the modern sexual market. Uber betas who have no exposure worth consideration to modern women outside of their family. Or they are just ...
01/18/2015
A relationship formed on romantic love would often end sooner than the one formed on practicality.
01/10/2015
Walking out of shopping mall without things you don't need is a challenge. You should feel heroic when you pull that off.
01/10/2015
We live in the age when it's a challenge to not eat unless hungry.
12/24/2014
Humans are great rationalizers. We often believe things to justify our actions/living rather than rationally derive beliefs and then act/live in alignment to those beliefs.
12/23/2014
It is ludicrous of women to complain that men don't want to commit. For commitment is a price for sex. (Men are capable to live alone in the harsh world because they are stronger, women need men for protection and security.) It is perfectly logical to not want to pay high price f...
12/23/2014
Everyone who has a job is slave. It is more important to have a goal than to have a job. Do you have a goal? (Paraphrased from the movie Enter the Void.)
10/06/2014
Promise, is triumph of emotions over rationality. But often not in the long run.
Considering mercurial nature of human mind, and unpredictability in the universe (and the fact of free will being dicey) giving a promise and being held to it imposes unfairness on the promiser. At b...
11/03/2013
A culture that allows its women to get attracted and won by men's animalistic maneuvers, and fails to reward virtuous men in the sexual marketplace, faces grim prospects survival. It would likely spiral into the state of nature from which it evolved.
10/24/2013
Manager to employees: We are a family.
There is no such thing as family in business world. It's management high-talk at best, emotional blackmailing at worst.
10/24/2013
Management to employees: Our clients and their customers are Gods. They might as well say: and you are inchworms, remember.
10/22/2013
I think virtual friendships add positive value to life only if one is a rare type and has like-minded friends in the virtual world. Like an intellectual finding other intellectuals on the Internet. Otherwise it just widens one's friendship pool which negatively affects wellbeing ...
10/20/2013
In the sexual marketplace when you don't understand a woman leaving her alone will do you more good than trying to understand her.
10/10/2013
There is no "intrinsic" meaning to life like there is no "real" free will.
09/15/2013
Not judging is not caring.
09/14/2013
A virtuous man expecting a woman to love him for his virtues is the same as an unattractive fat woman expecting a man to love her despite her unattractiveness.
09/03/2013
Looking at the pace at which technology progresses buying electronics like cellphones, computers or digital cameras has become a joke. Whatever one buys, a few months at the most, and the next level product is out there. It keeps people perpetually unsatisfied, constantly spendin...
08/18/2013
The most worthwhile experiences in life fall in the plane between fun and boredom. But most people I see are so obsessed with having fun that in absence of it they just get bored.
08/17/2013
I miss the sense of wonder that a dictionary or an atlas would inspire in me in the age before Internet. I used to eagerly wait for the dose of science and GK magazine I was subscribed to and my favorite newspaper columns. Now the plethora of knowledge available at fingertip does...
08/17/2013
Uncle whom I met after many years: So you still don't believe in God? / Me: *smile* / Uncle: What? / Me: You still know to ride a bicycle?
08/17/2013
Intellectual: A person who more than enjoying enjoys critiquing enjoyment.
08/17/2013
A loving man is equivalent of a fat woman in that both would share the same fate in an unregulated sexual market (modern life).
08/17/2013
I'm beginning to think that the oil crisis or the global warming might be good for us (the former may even be cure for the latter) - in fact, just what we need at this point to save the civilization. It's mutual dependence and common threats to existence that compelled humans to ...
08/17/2013
Evolution is the God in that it has answers none of the gods of various religions has. Darwin's On the Origin of Species is a book superior than all the scriptures (if one is looking to REALLY understand life). This is not a rant against religions, I'm just feeling in awe of the ...
08/17/2013
One should value experiences more than fun in life.
07/26/2013
How ironic it is that those who are deluded that life is meaningful are bent on ruining it for everyone and those who are aware of the absurdity and meaninglessness of existence are trying to save the world!
07/25/2013
I think the major reason why it is difficult to be virtuous, especially for men, is because virtuousness is not a good currency in the sexual market that life fundamentally is.
07/21/2013
Lack of choices, not love per se, is the secret of lasting marriage. A society that celebrates freedom and choices is bound to see the decline of marriage and family.
06/22/2013
You are shaped by your past, and every moment you are shaping your future. There is no such thing as living in the present detached from past and future.
05/14/2013
When people sacrifice their leisure time for owning more of materialistic things (e.g. working overtime because I want an iPhone), that society is plagued by alienation, the disease of modernity.
More leisure time means more time spent with friends and family. But when one doesn...
04/20/2013
Romantic love is a huge psychological cost to pay for sex. Romantic love exists because in the evolutionary past sex meant producing an offspring whose survival was best ensured when the parents stayed together. Hence, the mechanism evolved which made the mating partners “fall in...
04/20/2013
To indulge in purely romantic love is to surrender whatever autonomy one has and leave oneself at the mercy of brutal natural/biological forces. For, one doesn't develop romantic love for reasons palatable to one's mind, and one would lose the feelings in the same way, too. Where...
04/20/2013
Why I have to look for intellectual development while choosing friends? Why can't I just "enjoy" life? The answer to both is: I don't enjoy rolling in the mud with pigs.
04/09/2013
A man who tells his woman how much he loves her has dug his (love's) grave.
04/09/2013
If you can't enjoy the time with your friend WITHOUT CONSUMING SOMETHING, you are not friends.
04/09/2013
I think in general expecting the worst of people is a right strategy for many reasons. For one, despite what optimists would believe, humans are not fundamentally good-natured; they are more likely to harm than benefit you. Pessimism would not only save one of the pangs of unexpe...
04/09/2013
Human nature is fundamentally vile, for we all think we are the center, and can't help but game others. Good people just try to do less of it. It's a wonder that we can even connect.
04/09/2013
People in "love" don't want to be together when the "spark" is gone. Let me break this. The spark is like a high one gets when one is drunk. The reality of a relationship begins where the spark ends. For a fulfilling, long-term relationship, one should choose one's partner for th...
04/09/2013
Among philosophers honesty, most of the times, is the only choice. Two philosophers, therefore, can have qualitatively far superior relationship than (with) non-philosophers, I have experienced.
04/09/2013
Some people would feel good when you meet them even when you have to nothing to talk, precisely because you'd meet them even when you have nothing to talk; just to be with them. Others would find the silence awkward, and feel offended when you have nothing to talk. The former are...
03/17/2013
Respectability of job today is decided by how much money it pays. That's so wrong. It should instead be decided by what knowledge/skills it takes to hold that job, how it treats you, and how it benefits the society as a whole, among other things. An accountant making 10k/month is...
02/28/2013
The people who irritate me the most are those who don't want to: understand life, face bitter truths, use rationality,.. They would perennially wallow in misery, blaming others for their unhappiness. And what's more, they think The Big Daddy will grant them Heaven to make up for ...
02/27/2013
People who are most concerned with their own happiness are the people who are most miserable. That's just how it is. Happiness is the the art of living for oneself through living for others – family, community, society,..
02/20/2013
When the reigns of the world are with the people of low moral standing, it's no longer enough for the common folk to just peruse harmless living; it's imperative to cultivate highest virtues and live exercising them. For, like Edmund Burke said: The only thing necessary for the t...
01/30/2013
Complexity should be our foremost fear. We should always strive to understand and solve/avoid complexity. For complexity is the force that eventually brings down all relationships and structures of the world.
01/22/2013
Few people realize how great a virtue is discipline. Even if one is penniless and without a goal, just leading a disciplined routine alone can make life feel meaningful. Order and discipline provide nourishment to the human nature. Living haphazardly is animalistic. Not to mentio...
01/06/2013
It seems harmony is only possible through helplessness. The more the society prospers and people get independent the less inclined they are to harmonize.
12/24/2012
A lifestyle defined by self-righteous, feel-good philosophy plus narcissism has a fancy name which is "spirituality".
12/08/2012
I admit that my journey into philosophy began as I was trying to understand and conquer the suffering (I was into spirituality), but now suffering is the least of my worries. In fact, if there was God I would be grateful to Him for creating suffering. For without suffering we wou...
11/10/2012
Love (respect-empathy-compassion) and passionate sex can rarely survive together on their own for long. Sexual passion requires romance (romantic love), and romance thrives on mystery -- not on honesty and sincerity. Mysterious (i.e. dishonest, insincere, aloof) assholes are, the...
10/28/2012
My disillusionment with women and love aside, another reason I don’t wish to marry and have a family is, I have begun to realize that the only way for me to survive with meaning and fulfillment in this insane rush (especially of our times) is to live being a public philosopher. A...
10/15/2012
A philosopher is a person who doesn't take anything for granted and wonders about the origins of things.
08/31/2012
Humans are animals capable of virtuous acts, not virtuous beings capable of beastly acts. Virtue is not inherent but learned.
08/30/2012
Just because women don't rape doesn't mean they are all virtuous. Many women I talk to say that they wear short clothes to feel good about themselves, not to 'provoke' men. Well, if a woman 'feels good' by revealing her skin then that itself is perversion#. But alas, modern minds...
08/30/2012
Pervert man : Rape
Pervert woman : ?
If you think the answer is 'Rape' you are mistaken. The answer is 'provocative' behavior including, of course, skimpy clothes.
Cont..
08/26/2012
Human life is full of amazing paradoxes. Here quite often solutions are more problematic than problems. The trick is to strive for solutions while ensuring we don't solve it away.
08/26/2012
A thinking creature has no reason for indulging in oral sex (it's not even necessary for propagation) but for hardwired instincts. So it's out-and-out animalistic. It epitomizes the animal nature of us.
08/25/2012
The problem with most people's concepts of justice is that they have taken it for granted that man is not an animal. Think about this: man still has oral sex. Man IS an animal, and it's erroneous to believe that we are free of natural laws that bind other animals.
08/25/2012
Feminists would say, just because a rabbit does not attack a tiger, a tiger has no right to eat a rabbit; that a rabbit has the same rights as tiger. No, feminists, that tigers don't attack rabbits in 'civilised jungle' is a privilige enjoyed by rabbits for which tigers pay the c...
08/11/2012
Looking for (romantic) love? Remember: need* is the mother of failure. (*poorly-managed need.)
Ironic, but true. That's why "romantic love" is inherently doomed venture.
08/11/2012
A thousand years ago even the kings didn't have comforts that a man of modest means enjoys today; and sill the richest men too are unhappy. Happiness is not about material comforts. The trick is in managing choices and expectations.
07/25/2012
Either I am intelligent to know the futility (if not ills) of it, or I am evolutionarily just not adapted to carry the new-age burden of thousand (Facebook-) friends. So, I won't add you as a friend unless either we are 'really' 'friends' or I find you compellingly my type.
07/25/2012
Television today is an insult to intelligence and rapes dignity. The sight of it sickens me. And to live around increasing population of TV-created zombies feels so tragic I feel like running away to the jungle.
07/17/2012
Faithfulness in relationship is possible, but it is not natural. And if people join together because of biological pull -- popularly known as LOVE -- it is next to impossible, because this 'love' is by nature impermanent. That's the reason in cultures of the past it was condemned...
07/17/2012
In an ideal world there would be no businesses but 'service providers', and customer would not be king; profit would not be the motive (but social welfare) and the workers/employees would not be alienated from their work. In the world where there are business schools (so business...
07/08/2012
About four months ago I decided to not expose myself to TV advertising and since then have not sat before television; and the change in mental health is palpable.
Until the mind is out of it, it won't realize that it is living in a gutter feeding on shit.
07/03/2012
Love for one individual, in so far as it is divorced from love for man -- is romantic love. Hormonal, superficial, unreliable,.. need-based, shallow, selfish,..
"To love one person productively means to be related to his human core, to him as representing mankind. Love for one...
06/30/2012
Not studying philosophy/sociology and living is like running a car without learning to drive. Is it any wonder that so many lives are simply a series of mishaps?
06/30/2012
To the empty narcissistic souls attention is a life force. That's the reason for many of them Facebook (and Twitter etc.) becomes the necessity of life, for it provides them a window to get noticed without having to do anything worthwhile in the world.
06/30/2012
When romantic love becomes the valid basis for marriage, the era of marriage is reaching its end.
06/17/2012
In a good family unit (and in a community) the giver should not think that he is 'giving'. But when the receiver forgets that he is 'receiving' (the fruits of the other's efforts), then that distorts the (receiver's) notions of rights and responsibilities, and the tendency to fre...
06/17/2012
Romantic love is about everything Love should not be about.
06/17/2012
Women complain that men are jerks. Now if we look at this scientifically, any particular trait survives only when it is evolutionarily successful. Being a jerk has always been a dominant strategy (one with the highest payoff rate) in sexual realm, that's why men don't want to cha...
05/28/2012
Love that suits humans consists of giving. Only when one has transcended one's narcissistic animal nature can one freely give. That way man becomes cooperative which is the only condition through which humans can flourish as a species. Flourishing is the result of love.
05/19/2012
An alienated individual who can not attain to meaningful purpose in life tries to lose himself with drugs, loud music, extreme living etc -- 'alternative lifestyles' characterized primarily by pleasure and thrill.
05/08/2012
When marriage has already outlived its original purpose, and become a joke, it's funny to see people now fighting for the right to same-sex marriage. Maybe people are so bored with existence that they would take up any trivial matter as a 'cause'.
05/08/2012
The 'invisible hand' in free market (Adam Smith) and likewise also in free society may be great in shaping the universe, but it can not be friendly to humans; because it's Nature's hand, and Nature does't serve human agenda.
04/05/2012
Looking at the comforts-happiness relationship, we know that one can be as well-off as is possible when one has the basic comforts of life. Then the cause of discontent is the thought: 'I can have more', and availability of ways to act on that thought. The pursuit of 'more' sure ...
04/01/2012
Not abstinence, nor overindulgence, but moderation is the way to handle instincts.
04/01/2012
Neither he who's rolling in love's bliss nor he who is suffering from it are the right persons to take love advice from. Same goes for everything else too; because one can't think straight being on the extremes.
03/28/2012
The existence is fundamentally imperfect. Hence, there can't be solutions, only trade-offs.
03/23/2012
Having knowledge without good intentions is useless. Having good intentions without right knowledge is lame.
03/23/2012
Many people think that being a human automatically gives them certain rights, and that they have no ethical duties/obligations to fill other than following the laws. Well, mostly that works, and that's the reason now they have come to take rights as granted. What they must think ...
03/20/2012
Masses in the society need to be strategically conditioned (manipulated, brainwashed, as it were) all the time, while maintaining their delusion of freedom (i.e. not directly attacking their volition). If moralists can't do it, mass-media/corporations will succeed with theirs.
03/10/2012
There are no natural rights, because in Nature's state rights don't exist, only power does. Rights is a human concept afforded by civilized way of living. And the first thing to be given up to become civilised is "freedom to act as one pleases". Therefore, individual freedom can ...
03/10/2012
Some people are sad sad, and some people are sad about the world being sad. The latter are thinkers/philosophers. Which bunch would you rather be in?
03/08/2012
In corporate world, you are never appreciated for being intelligent. The only time you get appreciation is when you help your superiors look good in front of their superiors.
03/02/2012
If one lives with the belief "NOTHING IS RIGHT OR WRONG" and "NOTHING MATTERS" one would tend to pick the wrong actions often enough to harm oneself and the society. Therefore, as a moral being one has to define the right and wrong, and always try to live the right way; and let N...
02/29/2012
Most crimes are due to the clash of our primal urges with the norms of the current society. Since our emotional machinery is still best suited to the living conditions of 15000 years ago (evolution is painfully slow process), we are not well equipped to deal with the experiences ...
02/28/2012
When you find someone boring, that probably just means you don't share his/her interest/s.
02/26/2012
Unrestrained sexual expression and predominance of sex in relationships is not the mark of a forward society but a backward one.
02/20/2012
Since we are not living INDEPENDENTLY in a jungle (he who thinks otherwise, frightens me), our survival is faciliated by myriad interactions between individuals in a society; and as such, one's long-run self-interest is best served only by considering the interests of all individ...
02/19/2012
When someone tells you how to be happy and what is good for you etc., check whether the party is selling you any product. If yes, don't take it seriously, and don't allow it next time. The world would be much better, and people happier, if we could just implement this little chan...
02/16/2012
Savor and enjoy the pleasantness of life, but don't soar so high that the fall is unbearable. And take on the unpleasantness patiently without being rash, knowing it too isn't permanent. Hold firmly to the middle ground. That's the way of the existentially wise.
02/14/2012
Fools complain. Wise make their expectations realistic.
02/11/2012
Too much comfort and prosperity is not good. Without struggle and suffering happiness soon loses its essence, and ennui takes place, which is worse than any suffering. It's then that man takes to "extreme living" to keep from getting suicidal. It's not only deprivation that would...
02/11/2012
Individualism and freedom of thought are the enemies of the very values and morality which gave birth to them and elevated them to primacy among advanced nations. (Source)
02/07/2012
In an ideal society a politician's opinion should weigh more than a lay person's, a scientist's opinion should weigh more than a politician's, and a philosopher's opinion should weigh more than everyone else's. When this chain of command can't be effectively implemented, the soc...
02/04/2012
Lack of free will is not a new revelation. Religions have been saying it for centuries (everything's in the hands of God) and people were fine with it. The fact that we can't control things isn't depressing. Depressing is the knowledge that no one can. I think religions handled t...
02/02/2012
For evolutionary purposes, we are designed to feel ourselves as the center of the universe, the world revolving around us. As an implication, for every unpleasant experience we have, we are much likely to blame others. (Don't you feel you are the victim? Everybody feels the same!...
02/02/2012
NO ONE has a magic key to happiness, becuase there isn't any. It's not important to be happy all the time. What matters is that we be and do our best when we can help it, and know that we can't help everything.
02/02/2012
Some films show right things as right. Some show wrong things as wrong. And some films show wrong things as right. Those are what I call bad films. Same goes for TV shows. It's not the content per se, but the message or the impression it leaves.
02/01/2012
Spirituality views the world as a part of "the whole". Its focus is so much on the whole that it never really connects with the problems of the world. Only (non-)remedy it offers is for people to stop being people and merge into the whole. SPIRITUALITY IS HOKUM.
01/21/2012
Back in my spirituality days I received many a praise for saying this:
"An enlightened person lives on the tune of Nature. He doesn't need to know what is moral or immoral."
Now I say enlightened my ass! One must be a narcissist of the highest rank to have that thought!
01/19/2012
"Live as if this is your last day". (What?!) NO! Live knowing you have a long life ahead and you wouldn't want to make it ugly by giving into your studpid impulses today.
01/17/2012
There are three types of people: 1) Those who walk the path laid down by wise men – Tradition, 2) those who become critical thinkers and find the way – Philosophy, and 3) those who blindly fight for their right to live their own way – Individualism. I think the third type, who ar...
01/11/2012
Society is a system of interdependence for optimum welfare; and belonging to one isn't a choice. Therefore, individual freedom is a delusion which has to be enjoyed within certain boundaries. Claiming total freedom in society is immature to say the least.
01/11/2012
He who says he has a right to be jerk as long as he isn't harming anyone doesn't understand the fundamentals of human world. No one has a "right" to be jerk; in fact, everyone has a "duty" to live in interest of the society.
01/07/2012
The reality of human condition is too complex to be fully addressed by law. If something is not illegal, that doesn't automatically mean it is morally flawless. A behavior doesn't become indecent only when it becomes illegal.
01/07/2012
Woman, you show cleavage not for that blouse is comfortable for you, but for you want to attract attention of hot and attractive members of male species. But by doing so you attract not-so-desirable gazes too, which makes you feel insecure and threatened. Now you don't want to ta...
01/06/2012
The beauty of pure rationality is that it can't be factually defeated. Therefore many rationalists enjoy mocking ordinary people; and often they get away with it too. But the real wisdom is to transcend rationality and to live in a non-rational* state where most essential human e...
01/05/2012
Asking the Universe (or God) "Why me?!" for one's suffering is either ignorance or arrogance. A wise man knows that suffering is not personal.
01/05/2012
Tell me which sitcom character you relate to and I will tell you how dumb you are!
12/18/2011
The problem with spirituality is that it does not relate to the actual human condition but the (unrealistically) idealized version of it.
12/18/2011
If the world is ever to become a better place (though I am not optimistic about it) it will not be because of those who have “resolved” their moral issues by committing themselves to some fixed rules of behavior and thereby become complacent, but because of those who constantly f...
12/16/2011
Society is a group of interdependent individuals who have aligned each-other's self-interests to maximize their welfare. And belonging to society isn't a choice. A human being in civilized world is born directly into a society. To think that society is an illusion, or that one is...
12/15/2011
Extreme form of individualism is jungle rule – a world of "independent" and "alienated", zombie-like human beings. Happy it's-my-life-I-do-what-I-want freedom fighting!
12/12/2011
Regardless of what it should ideally be, the prevailing moral standard is what majority in a given society agrees to.
12/09/2011
When the idea of happy marriage (partnership) comprises of fantasy ideals of romantic passion provided by TV, films, fiction books and magazines, no human can ever have a happy marriage.
12/08/2011
The only way to fundamentally approach the problems of the world is to encourage people for critical thinking and help them develop philosophically. All other ways are merely treating the symptoms rather than disease.
12/08/2011
If you are fun-hungry, sex-obsessed, How-I-Met-Your-Mother-and-Twilight-fan then I am pretty sure that most of the time you're keeping gloomy and grumbling, because those are perfect ingredients for miserable life.
12/07/2011
When something has both positives and negatives, and positives are such that can be obtained from other better sources, and negatives are having substantial impact, then that's enough grounds for criticizing it.
12/06/2011
For many philosophically disinclined people their optimism stands in the way of them doing anything about their misery. It shows how at times pessimism can be positive and optimism negative.
12/05/2011
One's ability to love truly (which is empathy, compassion, respect..) grows in direct proportion to wisdom gained through understanding life. And that's the only way.
12/04/2011
To modern youngsters: Read wrong books (e.g. The Secret etc), watch wrong films (e.g. Twilight etc) and wrong TV shows (e.g. How I Met Your Mother etc), hang out with wrong people (look around), and ask why your life is miserable. I say, that's why!
12/04/2011
That love which depends on sexual act for its expression (e.g. romantic love) is but a sexual desire in disguise of love. Romantic love is a joke.
12/04/2011
Sex is neither love nor an expression of love. It's a quasi-voluntary indulgence of animal nature. Give it a status higher than that and prepare to be miserable.